We must inculcate intellectual honesty about what we really are.
We must have a speaking well analysed balance sheet of our strengths and weaknesses?
We must be ready to share it.
Do we have a desire to learn and take appropriate curative, remedial measures based on that revelation in our balance sheet ?
It is usually more difficult to do so than to propose .
Wait till I re-configure my self and try to match what I say and what I do.