Feeling that I am responsible for things around makes your attitudinal portrait, grooms your inner personality and fixes you on the social plane. This assertion of taking responsibility may cause stress to some extent but life itself is stress. Every time when hawks attempt , carnivorous mammals move out for their routine meals ,it is really stress for some other living beings. The life and the urge to live,to survive and the struggle to survive are no mean sources of stress that cannot be avoided.
Then,why to avoid the urge to excel,the urge to own responsibility, to live full strength , to live contributingly , to leave this world with a sense of satisfaction.
Sans recourse living,living without owning blames , living as is and as would be-even this posture cannot make you completely free.
Taking responsibility,accepting the blame,to lead and declare it are the beautiful heights of human life. Other wise also nature has made you responsible for you at every time.You cannot blame. May seek shelter but never as a matter of right..