Be only what you are and only be in your assigned profile.
Do the best pssible as a perfectionist in the role where you are expected to be.
If the role is that of an idealist, be that even if it hurts you or simply walk out if you feel that you cannot manage ideally.
Do not spoil or start behaving like a lay man .
If you enjoy a lay man's life , opt for it , be that and declare that .
None will expect anything from you. !!